After being off Monday due to the holiday, I went back to work on Tuesday. During the day another woman who attended the service called concerned because another woman at the service was dressed in black. At a service that was outside on a sunny May day this choice of clothing made this woman concerned for the mental well being of her fellow mourner. I explained the situation as best as I could and the woman seemed satisfied.
Later on Tuesday, I made my scheduled visit to the woman in black. The first thing the woman in black told me she was concerned because nobody at the memorial service but her appeared to be grieving because no one else dressed in black.